Patricia Moreno's Four Questions

While I was at Soul Camp (yes I am still obsessed), one of my favorite instructors was Patricia Moreno, the founder of Intensati. If you haven't heard of it before, Intensati is a combination of cardio/ dance movements with positive affirmations. We opened the first day of Soul Camp with an Intensati class, and it was the greatest way to crack open our energy. I haven't been able to find an Intensati class in San Francisco yet, but am trying to find a way to build it into my life. 

After camp, the host of a podcast that I was listening to mentioned a piece of advice that Patricia Moreno had given her while at Soul Camp. When you're freaking out about something, ask yourself these four questions:

  1. Is this 100% true?
  2. Are you sure that it's true?
  3. How does it make you feel and act when you believe it to be true?
  4. What happens when you hold the opposite to be true?

This advice has stuck with me ever since, because it's so tangible. Often when we're stressing out about a situation or outcome, it's our rational mind taking over and making up fears. But if we question our fears, they become less real.